Newlywed Jen Mathewson (CWR '08) and hubby Andrew (CWR '07) followed two principles when planning their October nuptials: 1. Don't drive yourself crazy. 2. Don't break the bank. She offers couples tips to keep budgets and sanity in check:

Choose a photographer who gives you full rights to your pictures, and design your own album at picaboo.com. "We made a book for us and gave them as Christmas presents for our parents."

Check out local bridal boutiques. They may have a surprising collection of dresses (and sample sales).

Find a reception venue that has character and a view: Consider it predecorated.

Skip food and drinks that stain. That white dress can be a magnet for red wine.